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A Somber, Moving Visit To The Oklahoma City National Memorial – Day 127

I can honestly say our visit today to the Oklahoma City National Memorial moved us both more than we ever imagined.

Our trip has run the gauntlet when it comes to what we have been able to see firsthand. There have many man-made wonders, and incredible scenes that nature painted without any assistance at all.

Oklahoma City National Memorial - Reflecting pond
The reflecting pond lays peacefully where the street once ran right in front of the Alfred P. Murrah building.

But we have also had the opportunity to visit sites with connections to some darker days in America’s past. And today’s visit was a somber reminder of one of those more tragic times.

The year was 1995, and a bomb exploded outside of the Alfred P Murray Federal building in Oklahoma City. It took the lives of 68 innocent and unsuspecting people. In its wake, families, a city, and a nation were changed forever.

I was 25 at the time, and still remember watching the coverage on TV. I remember how stunned and saddened I was by what had just happened.

The Memorial includes to walls that face each other, each stamped with the time one minute before and after the bomb went off at 9:02 AM.

But its hard to describe how visiting a memorial site in person puts an event in a different light. And that couldn’t have been more true today.

The Oklahoma City National Memorial

The memorial is incredibly powerful, beautiful and moving – all at the same time. It is built on the former site of the Alfred P Murrah building that was ravaged by the explosion. And it opened exactly 5 years to the date the bomb donated.

As part of the memorial, this corner of the buildings foundation was left in tact.

The Chairs

It is surreal to see the 68 hand crafted glass, bronze and stone chairs sitting so peacefully in the lawn. The chairs overlooks a massive reflecting pond that slowly ripples in the background.

There is a chair placed in the lawn for every life lost that day. And etched into each chairs base is a name of one of the victims from the bombing.

The chairs are arranged in nine rows, each representing a floor of the building. Each row is then filled with a corresponding number of chairs to represent where those who lost their life were when the bomb went off.

the chairs
The chairs can’t help but make you realize how deeply this tragedy affected the city, and the families of those who lost loved ones.

For small children, small chairs are placed in the row. For adults, a larger chair used. The symbolism hits you immediately. It is a moving and poignant reminder of the tragedy that changed so many lives that fateful day.

To that point, the times of 9:01 AM and 9:03 AM are inscribed at the top of two huge walls on opposite ends of the memorial. The times are meant to represent the peaceful second before, and the chaos left behind the second after the bomb detonated at 9:02.

A City Stands Strong

The Oklahoma City National Memorial is dedicated in honor of the victims and survivors, as well as all of the first responders who rushed in to help,

But it also a testament to the resiliency, pride and hope that exists when people face adversity.

To this day, there is still a section of fence left up for people to place reminders and notes to those lost in the bombing.

Whether it be a natural disaster, or a horrific and senseless crime against humanity, people always stand strong in the end. And that is certainly true when it comes to the people of Oklahoma City.

It also serves as an eye opening reminder to all who visit that life is short, and that every day is precious. Jim and Mary.

* Special Note: For those that have asked, we have now added a special section to the blog where you can easily navigate to see each day’s story from the trip – from Day 1 to present. You can see that here : The Days Of The Trip


  • Day 127 of 365
  • States : 16/50
  • National Parks / Monuments : 19
  • Stayed In : Oklahoma City, OK
  • Miles Driven : 53.9
  • Total Trip Miles To Date : 14,315.6
  • Total Gallons Used : 1,029.9
  • Biking Miles : 0.0
  • Biking Miles To Date : 158.4
  • Hiking Miles : 1.0
  • Hiking Miles To Date : 288.25

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